$550 has turned our house into a home. We are not forced to compromise who we live with just to cover cost. It was not always safe. I can put fuel in the car and make sure everyone has phone credit. It means not stressing about surviving so that I’m not worn down and able to deal psychologically with whatever the ex throws at me next. It means I’m less vulnerable psychologically, if you know what I mean. My garden is a place of joy and its ours.